HAPPYNESS / random thoughts

step 8 to happ(y)ness

ain't that lovely?

Have you ever felt happy when you were afraid?

No, because you cannot be happy and afraid in the same time. FEAR blocks happiness out.

So, overcoming fear must be a priority…

Fear of love? or of not being loved?

Fear of loneliness?

Fear of the unknown? or fear of not being in control?

Define your fears, make a list and start facing them.

When you face a fear, you accept it, you look at it and say: how bad can this be?, you start putting words on that monster, you make it less frightening, you start controlling it and not the other way round. THEN you will notice that you are becoming more confident, AND you will feel Happy with yourself…

Step by step…

{image from pinterest}

And now, start that list….(mine includes being afraid of showing my writings to professionals, they might hate it, and then they might not!!)…

6 thoughts on “step 8 to happ(y)ness

  1. Hello🙂
    I love it. Absolutely marvelous.Thank you for the reminder. Thank you for making everything so simple. Thank you for the nice detailed explanation on how we should face our fears.
    Don’t be afraid of showing your writing to “professionals”🙂 I am sure they will like it🙂 If they don’t like your writing, fine… Others will. And the ones who don’t like it, might give you some directions on what to do to improve your writings.
    So look the eagle in the eye, and move on🙂
    Best of luck🙂
    Zeina🙂

    • hi Zeina,
      A huge thank you for your wonderful reply! I am going to take your advice, as I would probably have said the same thing to “me”!!! Happiness is a way of living, a way of thinking, of breathing, of taking advantages of what is around us… so thank you for reading and hopefully there will be more inspiration to come!

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