So far, people around me have been genuinely nice, sweet, helpful, good listener, funny, crazy, loving, caring… but somewhere along the line i will meet a person who will make me feel bad about myself, who will try to diminish me, who will dislike, and therefore might want to hurt me in some stupid way. These people might not show their true colours at first, but if they do, my advice is to AVOID them, to forget about them , to ignore them, to just live without them.
It is not always easy. Sometimes this person is your boss, or your sibling, or your relative, or someone else really close to you…the bottom line is: People do not change unless they REALLY want to, unless they make a trumendous effort and work every day very hard in changing. That means they will continue to fill your life with misery, until…the day you decide these people do not matter anymore.
Surrounding ourselves with genuinely good people is a must to be happy, stay happy and share happy moments. Find those people, stick to them and avoid the rest!
Have a great Monday everyone!